Had a very meaningful chat today with somebody I might even call a friend...
I was an emotionally stricken person and I think that's obvious enough but I chose to conceal it instead of letting it pour out like most of the people. In my own opinion (AGAIN I STRESS!!! MY OWN OPINION!!!) I think is a little childish because raw emotions are just being blurted out which normally without the consent or concern for other people's well being...
But at times that is just what we needed to make our self felt at ease...
After all we are only humans... Creature made of flesh and blood where we put ourself on the priority mostly because it is hardwired in our mind since the dawn of our ancestors... But this is NOT THE POINT here...
To observe a person's true character and natural attitude it is advisable to observe from afar instead of participating in it and take judgement there as most of the time you will be swept into it and become one yourself...
Not to say it's a bad thing depending which kind of people you surround yourself with and your outlook towards them (MY OWN OPINION!!!) But your judgement will be more clear if you are not involved directly...
People are also animals (just a figure of speech) who crave for compassion and sometimes even to the point of going to your own principle or even harming themselves... They just can give anything instead of being alone...
And those who have the courage of being something different are being labelled as outcast or being alienated by them and to me those are the person who really have the courage to change and make a difference in themselves...
Those who stay with other for the sake of companionship and reluctant to change because they are in fear... Fear of being alone... But that's normal as who in the world don't have fear? Nothing's wrong with that and if there are people out there who do not have fear those are the people who's have something wrong...
We all have fears while some may have more than others but if you have the initiative to change and make a difference in your life and stand up for yourself then you are conquering a fear one way or another...
And I salute you for that...
So what if you lost your companionship? Their view is different and so that's that and you can't change their perception coz that's who they are...
However you can continue to befriend them if you accept you for who you are or just withdraw yourself...
There are people who can accept you for whoever you are in this world and you can take them as friends...
You don't have to change yourself just for the sake of being liked by others and who are them to ask you to change anyway? (unless you are willing to do so then please ignore the last sentence...)
YOU ARE THE CAPTAIN OF YOUR OWN LIFE!!!
With friends like that who needs enemies??
The point is make a change for yourself and not for the sake of others (again unless you are unwilling to and that's entirely up to you...)
PS: all the above are entirely my own opinion and not directed to anybody... I apologize in advance if you felt offended... It is not to be taken in if they are unwilling... Just speaking out my mind...
